The Dangers of Excessive, External Thankfulness
Introduction
God is marvelous. He is amazing. He embodies the synonyms of “awesome.” That means praise is an integral part of any relationship with Him — a lack of praise displays not only a dead relationship with God, but the epitome of human pride.
Unfortunately, as is often the case, one aspect of a relationship can and does get off-track. It happens when the relationship focuses solely on one facet, albeit a good facet. The relationship misses the big picture, or worse, morphs into entire misconception. It happens in marriages, best friendships, and in every conceivable human relationship. That includes a human’s relationship with their creator, maker, and ultimately (as is His plan) Father.
This “off-track-ness” of praise for God is often shown in the simplest of online communication — a status message. The quintessential status is an all-uppercase screaming of “WOW! GOD ANSWERED MY PRAYER!”[1] This exuding of thanks is often a mere pretext for the basest of human emotion and failure.
Faithlessness
Many a “genuine” status testifies of faithlessness. God promised in John 14:14, “If you ask me anything in my name, I will do it.” And in Matthew 17:20, He promised, “For truly, I say to you, if you have faith like a grain of mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move, and nothing will be impossible for you.”
Responses of total shock cannot fit those promises. God fathers His children. He loves them. He cares for them. God wants—He literally longs, as every father does—to answer His children’s prayers. He also demands the simplest of favors: He jealously desires His children’s trust. Sadly, His children respond in faithlessness.
Some posts portray faithlessness, and others reveal a more ignoble purpose.
Selfishness
A “spiritual” post on Facebook garners many “likes.” It is almost “un-Christian” to not “retweet” an answer to prayer. Such practices transform Christianity from a humble practice of godliness to an external practice of “God-talk.”
Fully understanding this point requires a short detour explaining social status. Social status fulfills a human craving, viz., attention. It is generally obtained by sheer charisma; having money; or, in one word, work.
Because social status is normally linked to cultural values, Christians, who are commanded to be counter-cultural (1 Peter 1), are automatically disqualified or significantly hampered. It doesn’t matter how much “work” devoted, they will deny either the world or their faith.
However, the emergence of “bubbles”[2] in Christianity reset all normal (i.e., cultural) values and proceeded to redefine them by “more Biblical” standards. While there is nothing wrong with more Bible (or more application thereof), the by-product of highly-spiritualized environments presents a real problem.
Social status normally takes a lot of hard work, but now, in this bubble, “spirituality” is not only popular, but it is required and expected. This kind of Christianity requires much less backbone or work. “Spirituality” can be obtained by imitation in this environment (and be motivated by social status). Because it now is easily obtained, the outcome is dangerous and a recipe for life-disasters.
The results are striking: a narcissist motivation for so-called “spiritual” activity. Because a “spiritual” post gets bonus points, they can be posted with the wrong motivation. Consequently, the dough of narcissism has already been mixed and leavened, if you will. Egocentric social networks bake it to full maturity. It is not over yet, and the bread will not taste good.
The feedback loop of social approval — feeding the ever growing self-monster — started years ago. The shallow, un-tested, crowd-pleasing “Christian” generations are only now coming to fruition and, scarily, leadership.
It is all because of innate selfishness. In the wiles of the Devil, he tricked them into believing they were doing a good thing.
Faithlessness and selfishness are not the worst traits, even if combined. Both never should happen. Faithlessness and selfishness are Biblically disallowed. There are zero loopholes.
Yet they still happen, and the reason is simple: the Bible, though crystal-clear, is misinterpreted.
Misinterpretation of Scripture
This misinterpretation occurs in two ways.
God’s Answers Misinterpreted
“Truly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, ‘Be taken up and thrown into the sea,’ and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that what he says will come to pass, it will be done for him. Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.”
(Mark 11:23-24 ESV)
“Again I say to you, if two of you agree on earth about anything they ask, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven.”
(Matthew 18:19 ESV)
Perhaps a Christian should wonder (i.e., at God’s grace) not when his prayers are answered, but when they are not! A Christian should still glory when God doesn’t answer prayer with, “Yes.” He has still answered. He is still worthy of magnificent praise and adoration.
The posts miss an entire side of God’s incredible answers! Oft the answer “No.” turns out to more good than a prayer answered, “Yes.”
God’s Answers Misemployed
“Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you are like whitewashed tombs, which outwardly appear beautiful, but within are full of dead people’s bones and all uncleanness.”
(Matthew 23:27 ESV)
The Pharisees are no exceptional case. Teens of today make very good Pharisees. All is focused on the external. Pharisees disgusts and appalls; it is as far from God’s plan as possible. It hurts to imagine that a gracious answer from God is spun to vain social appeal! It’s more than “un-Christian;” it’s straight from the father of lies. Satan has warped malleable children of the King to be once again instruments in his hand.
Jesus very accurately described it. Attempts at painting a better picture are futile. It stinks. It smells. It is detestable, repugnant, repulsive, revolting, and disgusting. Just as God is a thesaurus list of words for “awesome,” this practice is a thesaurus list of words for “abominable.&rdquo. Faithlessness seems infinitely better when compared with Christians reduced to base tools in the sin-monger’s hand.
Conclusion
Facebook statuses are important — just like every other relational interaction. What we do is important. That’s right, what you and I do is of inestimable value to someone. It’s time people start realizing it. Your Facebook status matters. It either lifts up God or self.
And it’s time people start realizing the awesome God of the universe wants to help them. It’s time for His amazing answers to be given proper thanks. It’s time for the thanks to be in Biblical moderation. It’s time that God-praise is the motive, not the pretense.
So go out and thank God. Praise God. Glorify God. Because our God is an awesome God. Just don’t do it without consulting God through scripture. Just don’t do it without abhorring self.
And me?
I’ve done it too. That’s why I hate it so much. I fell — I’ll probably do it again. It’s easy, but that leaves me no excuse. I could even have done it, ironically, in this post. I hope I didn’t.
And them?
They probably don’t realize what they have done. They probably didn’t mean to do it either. I’m not trying to criticize, I’m trying to inform and reprove.
Soli Deo Gloria.[3]
[1] This is obviously not the literal rendering, but it resembles a large majority of renderings.
[2] A bubble is simply a highly-protected and highly-spiritualized environment. It is not inherently wrong. However, it comes with its dangers.
[3] Latin for “To God alone be the glory.”